Pronominal Verbs in French

Quick Answer

French has a special category of verbs that include a built-in pronoun. These types of verbs are called verbes pronominaux(pronominal verbs). They're easy to recognize because they're always used in conjunction with this built-in pronoun, commonly known as the pronom réfléchi(reflexive pronoun).

examples

Je me réveille à 7 heures.
I wake up at 7 a.m.

Elle se lave rapidement.
She showers quickly.

In this article, you'll learn how pronominal verbs work, how to conjugate them, what kinds exist, and what special agreement rules you should keep in mind. C'est parti !(Let's go!)

Questions This Article Answers

What are pronominal verbs in French?

How do you conjugate pronominal verbs in French?

What's the difference between reflexive, reciprocal, idiomatic, and passive uses?

Where does the reflexive pronoun go in French?

What are agreement rules with pronominal verbs?

What Is a Pronominal Verb?

A verbe pronominal(pronominal verb) is a verb that is paired with a reflexive pronoun. Pronominal verbs are conjugated just like any other French verb. The only difference is that you need to include the reflexive pronoun se(default infinitive form), which changes depending on the subject. The reflexive pronoun always matches the subject. Here's what the reflexive pronoun looks like for each subject.

SubjectReflexive PronounExample
jemeje me réveille
I wake up
tutetu te réveilles
you wake up
il, elle, onseil se réveille
he wakes up
nousnousnous nous réveillons
we wake up
vousvousvous vous réveillez
you (all) wake up
ils, ellesseils se réveillent
they wake up

How to Spot a Pronominal Verb

In dictionaries or vocabulary lists, a pronominal verb will appear with sein front:

  • s'habiller(to get dressed)
  • se lever(to get up)
  • se réveiller(to wake up)
  • se souvenir(to remember)

Types of Pronominal Verbs

Not all pronominal verbs are the same! They fall into four main categories.

  1. Reflexive Verbs
  2. Reciprocal Verbs
  3. Idiomatic Pronominal Verbs
  4. Passive Pronominal Verbs

All four types above are types of pronominal verbs.

1. Reflexive Verbs

Reflexive verbs describe actions that the subject does to itself. The subject and the reflexive pronoun refer to the same person (or thing). In French, these verbs are common for everyday routines and personal care, such as getting up, washing, or getting dressed.

In English, we often use reflexive pronouns like myself, yourself, or themselves to express this idea, but not always.

examples
Je me regarde dans le miroir.
I'm looking at myself in the mirror.
Il se lave les mains.
He's washing his hands.
Nous nous rasons tous les matins.
We shave every morning.

2. Reciprocal Verbs

Reciprocal verbs describe actions that two or more people do to each other. These verbs use the same reflexive pronouns as reflexive verbs (me, te, se, nous, vous, se), but their meaning is reciprocal rather than reflexive. Instead of doing something to itself, the subject is doing something to someone else in the group and receiving the action in return.

In English, we often use reciprocal pronouns like each other and one another to express this idea, but not always.

examples
Elles se parlent tous les jours.
They talk to each other every day.
Nous nous aidons souvent.
We often help one another.

3. Idiomatic Pronominal Verbs

Some pronominal verbs are idiomatic expressions. They include a reflexive pronoun but do not reflect a literal action done to oneself or to each other. Instead, the reflexive pronoun is simply part of the verb's structure and meaning. In these expressions, the reflexive pronoun often doesn't have a direct English equivalent.

Here are some very common idiomatic pronominal verbs in French:

VerbMeaningExample
s'en allerto leaveIl s'en va.
He's leaving
s'habituer àto get used toOn s'habitue au froid !
We're getting used to the cold!
se méfier deto distrustVous vous méfiez des inconnus.
You distrust strangers.
se moquer deto make fun ofElles se sont moquées de toi.
They made fun of you.
se rendre compte deto realizeJe me rends compte de mon erreur.
I realize my mistake.
se souvenir deto rememberJe me souviens bien de toi.
I remember you well.
se tromper deto get (something) wrongElle s'est trompée de jour.
She got the date wrong.

4. Passive Pronominal Verbs

Some pronominal verbs are used to express passive constructions, especially in general, impersonal, or habitual contexts. They let you express the idea that something is done, said, or experienced, without having to mention who is doing it.

examples
Ça se dit souvent.
That's said often.
Le français se parle dans de nombreux pays.
French is spoken in many countries.

In these sentences, the verb appears in a pronominal form, but there is no reflexive or reciprocal meaning. The subject is not doing the action, but rather receiving it. This usage often replaces more formal or heavier passive constructions formed with the auxiliary verb être(to be).

Special Rules and Grammar Notes

Agreement in Compound Tenses

In compound tenses like the passé composé(compound past), pronominal verbs always use êtreas the auxiliary verb. The past participle agrees with the subject unless:

  • there's a direct object after the verb, or
  • the reflexive pronoun is an indirect object.
FrenchEnglishAgreementNotes
Elle s'est réveillée tôt.She woke up early.
Agreement with the subject
Elle s'est regardée dans le miroir.She looked at herself in the mirror.
Agreement with the subject
Elle s'est lavé les cheveux.She washed her hair.
There's a direct object (les cheveux) after the verb.
Elle s'est rendu compte de son erreur.She realized her mistake.
There's a direct object (compte) after the verb.
Elle s'est écrit.She wrote to herself.
The reflexive pronoun is an indirect object.
Elles se sont téléphoné.They called each other on the phone.
The reflexive pronoun is an indirect object.

Placement of the Reflexive Pronoun

The reflexive pronoun goes:

  • before the verb in simple tenses
  • before the auxiliary in compound tenses
  • after the verb in the affirmative imperative
examples
Tu te lèves trop tard.
You get up too late.
Tu te serais endormi si le documentaire n'avait pas été aussi captivant.
You would've fallen asleep if the documentary hadn't been so fascinating.
Couche-toi plus tôt !
Go to bed earlier!

Te Becomes Toi in the Affirmative Imperative

In the last example sentence above, notice how the reflexive pronoun for the second-person singular changes to toi! This is because te becomes toi when used in the affirmative imperative. Additionally, its placement changes: it goes after the verb and is linked to it with a hyphen.

examples

Regarde-toi dans le miroir.
Look at yourself in the mirror.

Habille-toi rapidement et lave-toi les dents avant de descendre.
Get dressed quickly, and brush your teeth before coming down.

The second-person singular reflexive pronoun becomes toi only in the affirmative imperative! When there's negation, use the regular reflexive form te before the verb.

examples

Ne te couche pas trop tard.
Don't go to bed too late.

Ne t'inquiète pas. Tout ira bien.
Don't worry. Everything will be fine.

Negation and Pronominal Verbs

If you want to use negation, simply place ne … pas (not) around the reflexive pronoun and verb in simple tenses, and around the reflexive pronoun and auxiliary verb in compound tenses. This applies to other negative pairs such as ne … plus (not … anymore), ne … jamais (never), and ne … rien (not ... anything).

examples
Je ne me réveille pas tard.
I don't wake up late.
Ils ne se disputent jamais.
They never argue.
Je ne me suis rien acheté aujourd'hui.
I didn't buy myself anything today.
Nous ne nous sommes plus revus après cet incident.
We didn't see each other again after this incident.

Questions and Pronominal Verbs

In est-ce que questions, inversion questions, and intonation questions (questions that are formed by simply raising your voice at the end of a normal statement, without changing the word order), the reflexive pronoun goes where it would normally go in a regular sentence.

Type of questionExamples
Est-ce que QuestionsEst-ce que tu te souviens de moi ?
Do you remember me?
Intonation QuestionsVous vous appelez comment ?
What's your name?
Inversion QuestionsVous levez-vous toujours à 6 heures ?
Do you always get up at 6 a.m.?

Te couches-tu souvent tard ?
Do you often go to bed late?